Actually as it becomes in army.
Team or task it has to be extremely precisely explained.
For example: Let's make so: let's go at first to a zoo, then to attractions.
On each attraction everyone will drive for three minutes.
In society the active want to be in the center of attention or where constantly something occurs.
Therefore very difficult often happens to such child to hear, mothers know it, and fathers too: Go, please, and play itself in other room.
It is one of the most terrible measures of punishment for such child..